Why Kari Jobe Wins Best-Dressed for March

At Top Buttons, we are always looking to draw inspiration from women who are  smart, talented, and classy. Singer/songwriter Kari Jobe fits these descriptions perfectly. Her many roles include worship pastor at Gateway church in Texas, Dove award recipient, Grammy nominee, and recently, wife to hubby Cody Carnes.

While Jobe is well-known for rocking neutrals, we absolutely love how she chose to add a bright pop of emerald green to her outfit. This is a great piece to draw inspiration from with St. Patrick's day just around the corner. Kari Jobe illustrates perfectly how green can be mixed with other pieces to tone down the vibrancy of the color and keep the outfit d0-able.

We love everything about this classy, cute and fun look. For this particular ensemble, Jobe chose to add classic oxford heels in a pretty mustard-color, sticking to her vintage-style roots in a subtle way. We love oxfords and their recent comeback over the past year. Choosing a pair with a heel like Kari did adds a little dressiness to her frock, leggings and casual scarf. She chooses to accessorize with bold nails and a stack of bracelets.

Kari Jobe is one lucky lady, but we adore her for being such a brilliantly talented Christian role model for girls of all ages. What's not to love?

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Written by: Katy Abramowich {Image via Pinterest}

Take It Easy: Effortless Summer Style

Don't sweat it this summer when it comes to your wardrobe! This summer's style is easy, relaxed, and comfortable. With the cool and classic "boyfriend jean" making it's headway this summer,  making a style statement has never been easier!

Wear them distressed, light washed, slim, long, short, cuffed, cropped- however you wear them, they are sure to add an element of effortless edge to your outfit. Not to mention, they are wonderfully comfortable and breathable for those hot summer days. Pair them with your favorite white or message tee for an extra dash of boyish charm. And of course, complete the look with some eclectic accessories to express your personality and add a feminine touch.

This look says confidence and one-of-a-kind style! The top is a bold and fun muscle tank from H&M for only $7! Paired with AG relaxed skinny boyfriend style jeans from Nordstrom for $205. A cute tan bootie heel is another summer essential, found at Nordstrom Rack for $25! The finishing touches to the look are a studded hat from Charlotte Russe for $10 and a multi-chain necklace found at a consignment shop for $7.

This next look features another way to wear boyfriend jeans: boyfriend shorts! These were found at Nordstrom on sale for $25! The message tee is from Aritzia for $15, and the hat is $10 at Charlotte Russe.

This look includes a loose-fitted white tee with sheer panel details from Nordstrom for $25 with a baggy-fit, light-washed boyfriend jean from H&M for $30. Finish this effortless outfit with a chunky statement necklace and a fun printed oxford. The statement necklace is one of the hottest trends in accessories and can be found just about anywhere. The printed oxfords were found at Nordstrom Rack for $15!

So, this summer, keep it simple. Be relaxed. Be yourself.

PHOTOGRAPHER: HANNAH DOBSON

Top Button's Teen Spotlight with Scout Hunt

Scout Hunt is a 14 year old photographer who is living proof that dedication and passion lead to success. Scout first made a social connection with us via Instagram and we quickly fell in love with her creative eye behind the camera lens.

The verse 1 Timothy 4:12 came to mind when we first discovered how young Scout was:

"Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity."

In efforts to inspire YOU to continue doing what you love, we've conducted a brief interview with photos from Scout's portfolio.

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Photos by Scout Hunt

1. What sparked your interest in photography? How old were you when you started, and did it come naturally for you? Feel free to describe any struggles or frustrations you had along the journey.

"I was in California for several weeks during the summer after seventh grade and my uncle brought his Canon camera and showed me how to use it. He let me take random photos of grass and things with his lenses and I really enjoyed it. He thought I was doing fairly well so encouraged me to continue it.

When we got back to Florida I began searching on eBay and Craigslist for a Canon DSLR that I could afford. I ended up finding his exact camera at a great price and buying it. I learned nearly everything from Pinterest articles, like how to shoot in manual mode, lighting tips, and editing tutorials. When I look back at some of my first portraits I realize how, honestly, bad they were. But at the time I was very proud of them so I did not really encounter too much frustration.

The hardest part about it was learning how to shoot in complete manual and how to edit well. But, through practice it slowly came together to produce better and better photos."

2. What kind of photography do you enjoy the most? "I mainly enjoy portraits because people can give feedback and I love the accomplishment of someone absolutely loving a photo, but I wish I was really good at landscapes because I think those are so beautiful."

Photos by Scout Hunt

3. What word of advice would you give other teenage girls towards pursuing their interests? "It's very important to pursue your interests because of where they could take you and how enjoyable it is to do something you're passionate about."

4. What do you want to be when you "grow up"? "I actually want to be a director, but always continue photography."

5. A lot of people use their hobbies to express themselves, to cope with emotions, or simply because they love the rewarding feeling of accomplishment. How do you feel when you capture a photo you really like? And what's your muse or inspiration behind photography? "Whenever I capture a photo I really like, I try to pass my excitement to the person I'm photographing because when they love the photo just as much as I do I know I accomplished my goal. My main inspiration generally comes from when I see photos other photographers have taken, then I want to capture a photo just as pretty."

Photos by Scout Hunt

6. What's your perspective on modesty? How would you define it? "I would define modesty as respecting yourself and your worth in the way that you dress and carry yourself."

7. We've recently been doing a "Good Girls Deserve Props" campaign amongst the youth, where we highlight young ladies who are doing good. In what ways would you say you and your friends are doing good? Any friends you want to give a shout out to? "My friend Hannah Williams has been volunteering with Big Brothers Big Sisters which is an organization that pairs  youth with 'Big Brothers" and "Big Sisters" who they can develop a one-on-one relationship with. The big siblings also tutor them, help them with homework, play games with them, or just help them out where they need it. Quite a few other friends volunteer at Parker Street Ministries where they also work with young children. Also many of my friends help out with Tennis for Tumors which raises money for brain tumor research."

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As you can see, Scout not only has an eye for photography, but a mind for modesty! She took the initiative to pursue her passion for photography and through hard work and dedication, she has excelled drastically. She definitely makes our list of Good Girls who Deserve Props by promoting modesty through her photographs and by spreading love through volunteering with her friends at various organizations.

On that note, we encourage YOU to pursue your passions and spread love too!

Super Top Buttons Fans show us Their Favorite Spring Looks

Recently TopButtons had the opportunity to do a photo shoot with two of our biggest supporters: Abby and Makailey. These lovely high school students remind us why we do what we do and they are living examples of what it means to reveal less and express more.

Enjoy some of our favorite shots accompanied by some details of their trendy outfits.

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Meet Abby! Her bright colors and cute pose represent her fun personality! Abby's ombre dress blends from pink to orange, which is perfect for Spring. She purchased her dress at Target.

Abby chose to accessorize her outfit with layered necklaces and a cute bow ring, but this dress can be paired with all kinds of jewelry to express one's unique style.

Abby's metallic sandals are from TJMaxx, which is a great store because it offers high quality name-brand clothing at a fraction of the price!

Abby's Favorite Bible Verse: I love the Lord, for he heard my voice; he heard my cry for mercy. Because he turned his ear to me, I will call on him as long as I live. [Psalm 116:1-2]

Photo credit: Betsie Amendola

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Meet Makailey! She chose to create a color contrast with a sea-green blouse from Bealls and a pink bauble necklace that she scored at Goodwill.

Makailey's white pants are perfect for Florida's warm weather. She was able to get these at Old Navy, which provides several affordable options.

Makailey's Favorite Bible Verse: By day the Lord directs his love, at night his song is with me— a prayer to the God of my life. [Psalm 42:8]

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Not only do Abby and Makailey have a good sense of style, but they also have good hearts. Because they have such a unique and dynamic friendship with each other, they're able to remind each other of their value in Christ.

Photo Credit: Brittany Biddinger

Trendy Tuesday: Don't Deny Yourself Floral Jeans for Spring

With Spring in full swing, it's the perfect time to rock some feminine floral jeans - girl, go ahead and show off your delicate side! Paired with a lacy top, or even some edgy darker colors, floral jeans are the perfect way to embrace the season and show a little love for the gorgeous weather, the bright sunshine, and of course the sweet-smelling flowers. To get to pumped and ready to go, we've got a few flowery jeans we love:

These floral brocade jeans from Forever 21 are keeping with the beautiful floral trend, without being too overly colorful - perfect if you're looking for a more subtle way to rock this look. At $25, they don't break the bank either!

These dark floral print jeans will serve you well this Spring - but don't be afraid to pull them back out in the Fall, too! They're on sale for $6 at JCPenney's, and you can't beat that!

These white floral jeans keep it light and pretty for Spring - and the bold red print adds a little extra edge! They're on sale for $27 at Neiman Marcus, too!

Another pair of floral jeans that are versatile for year round trendiness... These orange jeans from Urbanog are too cute, and only $15!

Lastly, we love the abstract watercolor floral print to these Pieces brand jeans found at ASOS! These are on sale for $17 - free shipping, too!

Stay trendy, ladies!

Trendy Tuesday: Spring Prom Dresses!

The search for the perfect prom dress is upon us... What kind of styles are you going for? Are you all about the glitz and glam, or do you rock a vintage vibe? In honor of the beauty of Spring, we're obsessing over bright and beautiful prom dresses. Here's a few we found that you should check out:

This sweet baby pink gown from Loving Dresses oozes sophistication... Not to mention the sheer top provides a little extra coverage without being too obtrusive. $130

This showstopping gown keeps it light for Spring in a beautiful light turquoise - and is also available in a multitude of other colors! Again from Loving Dresses, the 3/4 lace sleeves add an air of timeless grace and beauty. $170

This bold hot pink gown is full of sparkle and is sure to show just how pumped and ready you are for prom! The empire waist will flatter many figures, and the cap sleeves add a touch of modesty without being too much! $140

Talk about a princess dress! This modern day Cinderella blue ball gown can be your perfect prom dress - and you don't even need a fairy Godmother! $180

This BEAUTIFUL rose gold dress is feminine and fun, and is perfect if you're looking to shake it up by not wearing a floor-length gown! $124

We know this can be one of the biggest decisions you have to face during the school year... And we hope it's been helpful! Just remember: Keep it Classy, and Be You!

Trendy Tuesday: Mesh Details

Though for many of you it's still snowy and cold out, we're all anticipating a warm, breezy summer. You'll need something light enough to not weigh you down, but substantial enough to keep you modest and to keep away the chill on summer nights! What could be more perfect than some mesh accenting? We've found a few cute pieces that are perfect for layering, and will look totally fab this summer as you're out and about!

This mesh hoodie from Forever 21 is perfect cover to keep the chill off on breezy summer nights! How cute would it be over a colorful tank? $25

This dainty top from Forever 21 has a fun lacey front, and how cute are the buttons down the back? Thrown on a plain tank underneath, and you're in business! $25

This adorable mesh overlay dress from Forever 21 incorporates floral embroidery... who said mesh was only for workout clothes? $28

Speaking of workout attire... This simple t-shirt from American Eagle has cooling mesh sleeves - but who says it has to be a work out shirt? Throw on your favorite jeans, heels, and a statement necklace and you've got a modern & fun outfit! Bonus points, this tee is on sale for $12

There's so many ways to wear this cute trend to stay  cool for summer - just don't forget to stay covered too!

Loving this trend? Check out a few others you'll love too! Summer Scarves, Stark Black & White, Love 21, and Neat-o Neoprene!

Trendy Tuesday: The "New" Neoprene

When you think of neoprene, you've probably got a less-than-fashionable picture in your head: scuba gear. But fresh off the runway, and seen on celebrities everywhere, this stretchy fun fabric is taking on a new role in the fashion industry. We've found a few new ways to incorporate this trend to your everyday life.  

This neoprene sleeveless peplum top is perfect for spring and summer with its cool toned print. Find it at BlueFly on sale for $25

Again through BlueFly, we found this beautiful coral v-neck dress. The classic cut is enhanced with neoprene that hugs without being too much! $60

This simple neoprene sweatshirt is accented with a fun design, and is easy to pair with just about anything. Since neoprene is still cooling and breezy, it's good to go for all your spring and summer adventures! $27 on sale at ASOS!

Neoprene is also awesome for your gadgets too! Not only is the outside still fresh and fun, but neoprene cases are padded for protection and the fabric will resist letting water in! These can be found all over the web, but we love this print from Vera Bradley, for $38!

Loving these trends? Check out some of our others: Swanky Sweatshirts, Holographic Accessories, Smile-Worthy Shoes, and Love 21!

Trendy Tuesday: Summer Scarves

This summer, you don't need to put away all your scarves and wait for winter to come again. Wearing a scarf in summer is totally acceptable, as long as you pick a season appropriate material and color - wouldn't want any wool plaid, now would we? Check out this helpful video from Nordstrom's about fun ways to use your scarves this summer:

Now that you've got the skills, you need the perfect scarf for summer! Luckily, we've found a few to choose from -

This light and pretty watercolor scarf from Old Navy is only $12, and looks perfect for the "Cowgirl" style!

This oblong scarf has a subtle nautical feel to it, and the stripes are so versatile for summer! Try out some fun knots with this beauty from Forever 21, a steal at $11!

This beautiful - although pricey - sarong from Vera Bradley is the perfect addition to your summer wardrobe. $43 buys you this fun and colorful beach cover-up that you can use summer after summer.

Loved this trend? Find more from Top Buttons - from Contrast Button Downs, to Fun Shoes; from Bomber Jackets to Spunky Sweatshirts; from Holographic Details to Modern Black & White to a Close-up on Love 21 !

Trendy Tuesday: LOVING Love 21

Normally we use this post every week to talk about a trend or style coming up for spring and summer, but today we're going to talk about a line of clothing that is beautiful and affordable- Love 21. This line comes from Forever 21, and is formally called "Love 21 Contemporary" and on top of just being the contemporary line, it's also better understood by the fashionistas who love F21 as the slightly "bigger" line. By this we mean, Love 21 clothing is a half-size larger than the Forever 21 equivalent. But whilst perusing the website, the things we noticed were that Love 21 clothing is just a touch more modest. Of course, like it's parent line it sells crop tops and bodycon dresses, but other items that it sells - dresses, for example - are longer and looser fitting. So today we'd like to spotlight some adorable pieces you can find at Forever 21 - just look for the Love 21 label!

DROP-WAIST DRESSES

We're loving this upcoming spring/summer trend that is shying away from the form-fitting, uber short and constricting dresses of the past and looking forward to looser dresses that focus on the cool shape and style of the dress, and often the print and texture of the fabric, rather than focusing on showing off body parts!

This floral drop-waist dress is fun, chic, past fingertip length (yay!), and only $24.80

This lace drop-waist dress combines loads of spring and summer trends all in one dress! Chic black & white, lace (always in style), and an affordable price - $29.80

LONGER LENGTHS

Sick of mini-skirts? Unlike a lot of teen oriented retailers, the Love 21 line carries skirts that aren't super short - but also aren't maxis!

This cute knee-length skirt keeps it classy with a fun print, and is priced at just $24.80

This button-down skirt is perfect for spring and summer, but makes a great transition piece as well! $27.80

KOOL KIMONOS

Another trend we're loving at Love 21? Sheer, breathable kimonos. Throw one over just about any outfit and you've just added come culture, class, and comfort to your outfit.

This fun and easy kimono combines a few things we love - art deco style and chevron stripes. This beauty can be found for $39.80

This sheer kimono has a fun print - and we love the way it's paired with faux leather pants and a simple tee! $19.80

Loving these trends? Try some of these as well: Contrast-Collared Button Downs, Stark Black & White, Holographic Accessories, Bomber Jackets, Fun Sweatshirts, and Smile-Worthy Shoes

Trendy Tuesday: Cold-Snap Sweatshirts

We all own them, but usually try to avoid them like the plague: sweatshirts. For years, they've been seen as cheap, frumpy, uncool, and unstylish. But this Spring, with the continuation of cooler weather, we're giving you the okay - in fact, we're urging you on! - to wear sweatshirts. No longer are they plain and boring, these days they are full of all shapes, styles, and colors of fun prints, designs, appliques, and bedazzlement. We've found a handful from all your favorite stores - Forever 21, Topshop, H&M, and ASOS - that you're bound to love. So don't feel bad! When you see the temperature dropping, grab an easy but cute sweatshirt and head out the door comfy and in style! 1. Easy-As-Pie Prints

This Topshop find brings back the preppy cuteness of plaid but keeps it comfy for the chilly days ahead! $58

Another cute Topshop sweatshirt... This tropical print reminds us of summer! $58

This sweet Forever 21 find won't break the bank, but is sure to keep you styled through the chilly weather! $14

We're loving the stained glass print to this ASOS sweatshirt! $65

2. Cutesy Designs!

Not sure we can think of anything cooler than combining a geometric print with Kermit the frog. This Forever 21 sweatshirt will showcase the child in you, but still make Kermit cool as an adult. $23

Calling all inner-geeks! Let it out and show your love for superheros! This Forever 21 sweatshirt is all about Iron Man, but there are tons more just like it in different colors with different Marvel heroes on them as well! $20

This H&M sweatshirt is simple but fun with embroidery that gives the shirt a "puffy" look to it! $40

3. Exciting Embellishments

The embroidery on this Forever 21 sweatshirt is what makes it stand out. Pair this subtle sweater with colorful printed jeans and you're in for a fun & fashionable day! $14

Feeling a little edgy? The faux leather and short studs add intrigue to this simple black sweatshirt. $17

Unlike a lot of other embellished sweatshirts out there, this black Forever 21 sweatshirt ops to leave the shoulders bare of embellishment in favor of the lower half of the sleeves. How cute are these rhinestones?? Sure to add a little bling and shine a chilly day. $28

Lastly, we couldn't leave out this adorable ASOS sweater. Disney? Sheer sleeves?? Yes please! $56

Stay warm, lovely ladies!

And if you like to stay on trend, make sure you catch all our other Trendy Tuesdays! From contrast-collared shirts to bomber jackets, cutesy shoes to holographic styles, we've got you covered!

Trendy Tuesday: Smile-Worthy Shoes

With winter wrapping up and spring emerging, it's time to put away those over-sized boots and break out some cute flats that will usher in the happiness and warmth of spring - starting with your toes!

Adorable, right? Chiara Ferragni is a fashion blogger who has designed these funky mismatched shoes. Though each shoe has it's own design, together the pair add a fun and fresh detail that will bring any outfit to life.

Here's the catch - these adorable shoes cost a whopping $211 US dollars. Tears, I know. That was our initial reaction too. Luckily, this sweet trend has taken off and can be found all over the place (and on the cheap, too!)

If you've never heard of ModCloth, get right on out of town, because it is one of the most adorable online shopping sites in the world. Full of vintage and fun styles, ModCloth supplies us ladies with the perfect mix of modern & vintage attire! ModCloth also conveniently has a selection of flats that remind us of Chiara's - but for much less.

These DV8 flats are cute and colorful - and $45!

These Liliana loafers add a SUPER fun detail to everyday jeans and t-shirts - and at $38, your super power could be described as "super frugal"

Though much more simple than any Chiara flats out there, these adorable flats add the same fun of mismatched embroidery without being too crazy (hint hint: subtle Valentine's day reminder?) These simple navy blue flats are $40.

Whatever your style may be like, don't be afraid to let this fun new trend inspire you! (Do I smell a DIY in the air?) Whip out the glitter and scissors and make your own fun and sparkly flats - or splurge on a brand new pair from ModCloth!

Whatever you do, don't forget to stay trendy!

P.S. - Loving this trend? Check out some others - Spring Bomber Jackets, Contrast-Collared Button-Downs

Trendy Tuesday: The Bomber Jacket

Though for some of us winter may carry on for a few more months, it's time to start thinking about transition pieces and springtime jackets! Yippee! We can almost dream of putting away our chic wool pea-coats and heading towards warmer days! Coming your way this spring - bomber jackets.  (This Topshop number is fresh and fun for spring!)

But unlike WWII days, this retro look has stepped it up a notch. This spring look for bold patterns, fun prints, and exciting textures - lace, leather, satin, and everything in between!

Coming fresh off the runway from Marc Jacobs, Tracy Reese, and Alexander Wang, bomber jackets are ditching the old wool lining and picking up new sophistication with mesh detailing, perforated leather, and sweet silky prints - perfect for toning down a dressy outfit or adding a sporty (yet girly) vibe to daily jeans.

While we love designer pieces, and even these jackets found from J. Crew and Topshop (and who wouldn't?!) Who can afford the steep prices that come with them?

Both of these bomber jackets from Topshop (leopard found here, foil print found here).

Luckily, Forever 21 is forever there to save our wardrobes. With a plethora of adorable - and affordable - bomber jackets, this trend will not only keep you cute, but keep your wallet happy too!

This leopard print bomber is comparable to the topshop jacket seen above, but without the steep $160 price tag.

This fresh Geo-print bomber jacket is light enough to stay with you as the seasons change and the air gets warmer.

We're loving this fun twist on the bomber jacket - classic leather body, but cool, cute lace sleeves! Find it at Forever 21 - and bonus points for being under $40!

Stay trendy, ladies!

Create an Eclectic Style from Your Own Closet

Ever wonder how some girls just have a knack for pulling together an outfit with pieces you would never normally pair together, but somehow the whole look just works?! Well, it isn't too difficult to accomplish this look because there is no one way to do it!

The eclectic style is all about creating an unusual look with mixing styles; therefore don't feel boxed in.

To accomplish this look:

• Mix prints, patterns, and fabrics

• Play with complimenting and contrasting colors

• Try putting together shades of the same color

• Pair fancy pieces with basic items, such as sneakers with a nice dress or a t-shirt with a frilly skirt

• With accessories, mix metals and size

• Having the right bag and shoes will pull it all together and give an intentional finish to your look!

The eclectic look can at times appear to violate some fashion faux pas.  But there is no harm in trying to upcycle old items with newer ones in a unique way. And if done tastefully, it can create interest into your personal style.

Morgan seems to do it right with creativity, personality, and class every time!

Still Trending: Floral Pants

Ladies, there is no need to look both ways before crossing the street in an eye catching floral look! This edgy take on a floral pant will have people clearing traffic as if the streets were a runway! With Spring on the horizon, patterned and floral pants are taking their place as the latest fad. Even though florals are rooted with a feminine touch, playing with colors and textures can take a once girlie print to an edgy style with spunk. The floral pant shown here is paired with a solid scoop neck and faux leather vest. A cap sleeve tee works just as well as a long sleeve, especially if you live in a warmer climate and the faux leather vest gives the outfit just the right amount of texture. Accessory wise, pick your pleasure: gold, silver, gunmetal, rose gold, etc. Any metal will look great against a floral, just be sure to stick with one type of metal. Add a crossbody in one of the hottest colors for spring such as blush, with an ever so classic Mary Jane pump to your look, and you are ready to take on any sidewalk or street... as if it was your own personal runway.

Vest  | Scoop neck | Floral pant | Mary Janes | Blush cross-body | Ring

Makeup Artist: Melissa Kinsey

Photo credit: Moments by Jen

Meet Our Lakeland TB Representative

 Lakeland: A Homeschooled Dancer with a True to Self Style

[bra_dropcaps style='dropcap1']I[/bra_dropcaps] am a dancer and have been homeschooled while living in the Lakeland area my whole life. Sometimes I hear that being homeschooled means you have no social skills or just don’t connect with your peers.  I couldn’t disagree more!  I love meeting new people and being a part of teams that are into the arts, dance, fashion, and yet still I have the freedom of getting my school work done as I want to.

I’m really looking forward to being more involved in Top Buttons through their  Modesty On The Streets (MOTS) Campaign because it is difficult to find fashion tips without all the other stuff attached to it.  I mean, I’m not interested in learning about celebrity  break ups while looking at fashion magazines, I want to see different ways to coordinate the clothes in my closet and recommendations on where to find things.

[bra_blockquote align='']I have seen some really fashionable and modest styles online, but most of these outfits would make me pass out if I wore them in this Florida weather! [/bra_blockquote]

With that being said, I have found that my greatest challenge with dressing modestly has to do with the Florida weather.  Due to the heat and the country influence, here you will find cowboy boots and miniskirts are quite common year round.  I like the cowboy boots, but I’m not into miniskirts. I personally am a variety kind of girl. I love comfy Levis with a baggy sweater, or on some days, maybe a fancy print with some heels.  Accessories are the key for me to change it up and make old things feel new.  From a young age I set out to create true-to self, unique styles. One of my favorite things about fall is the layered look.  The whole idea of wearing shorts with vintage leggings and boots, I find stylish. And I have experimented with this look myself.

After a much anticipated trip to New York City, I became inspired not only to experiment with my own outer style, but to consider my inner style as well.  Modesty is the goal. Modesty helps me keep a clean reputation and shows respect for myself and others. It also attracts others who share this same value. Keeping it modest can be extra fun because in our current culture you will actually get to stand out (in a good way of course). Many times kids get locked into the peer pressure of their Middle Schools or High Schools, settling for becoming a copy rather than an original.  Many fear that being who they are will lead to isolation.  Although seeking acceptance is a natural desire, if you can learn to expand your vision, the options for your look and life will be limitless.

— Kenady